Love: Does Looks Still Matter?

Dear Diary,

Yesterday my good actor friend, Jason Lanzar Rivera, visited me at my beautiful Boutique in Brooklyn (Loveys).


Jason is a fabulous actor. He has recently appeared in the movie, King of Paper Chasers. If you haven’t seen the movie yet, go and see it because it is really good.

Anywho, Jason is what we call a handsome man; ok a gorgeous man. He looks way better than he appears on television. I posted a pic of him and I on all of my social networking sites (Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram) and the response from women were crazyyyy. Seeing this response made me ask, does looks still matter to people? I know it did to a specific person I was trying to find a man for but damn, does it matter now?

Would you like a man based on his looks? Does a man looks what determines if you want him or not? As women are we more weak off of a good looking man versus one not so good looking? Or are we more sexually attracted to men who have great looks?

If you ask me, looks doesnt mean anything to me. A pretty man could be an ugly soul. Sure a great looking man is nice to look at and damn sure is some great eye candy but that’s all it is. I go by a man’s personality and thankful for my good friend Jason, he has the talent and personality any girl would die for. Choosing a mate off of looks alone will leave you in a dark and lonely place. Yeah, you will miss out on all the good ones waiting for one who has those “perfect looks.”


I wrote this post to make sure that you check your superficial ways at the door when waiting for your Mr. Right! Don’t choose a man off of looks alone but by his character. Yes, you have to judge a man by his principles, lol.

Have you ever chose a man based off of his looks? Share your story!

Also, follow my boy, Jason Lanzar Rivera on Twitter now!


One comment

  1. I agree that it’s important to look deeper and past someone’s looks, HOWEVER…and this is a BIG “however”…it’s also very important to not settle. I’m the type of person that if I settle on the looks because the guy is “good” then I end up regretting it…at some point I realize, omg…he isn’t my type and I start to pick him apart. I had a convo with my dad, who I’m very close to and I mentioned this to him and asked him, “is this wrong? should I not focus on someone’s looks?” He was very open and honest with me and said, “HELL NO you aren’t wrong! Never settle, even on the looks…you have to be happy waking up next to that person for years to come, go after what YOU want!” I think there is a healthy balance in finding a good guy who meets your standards of outward appearance as well. My boyfriend is fine in my eyes and he is a good guy…so it’s possible!

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