Miss Jackson’s Lawsuit and the Dark Side of Floyd Mayweather!

Floyd Mayweather may be one of the most richest men in the world but lately he has been involved in some of the most corny ish I have heard about in my life… From posting up “abortion proof” to entertaining scorned wives to taping himself getting bathed (mind you there was no sausage poking out of the water) to Read-Gate to now Miss Jackson’s new lawsuit. Boy, I tell you Biggie Smalls was right when he said, “Mo’ Money, Mo Problems.”

Women across the world love Floyd Mayweather; he’s rich and he’s not afraid to spend his money on the ladies but obviously there is something dark going on with him behind the scenes. On Instagram, Floyd comes off as a misogynist who suffers from the Napolean Complex. Sure he smiles a lot with those Hollywood teeth but what’s behind the grin? I always advise my ladies to go beyond what they actually see because now a days dudes are playing into a character.

Miss Jackson announced yesterday that she is suing Floyd Mayweather for assault, battery, defamation, the works. She claims that she met Floyd Mayweather in 2006 when she was allegedly 21-years-old. I say allegedly because I am having a hard time believing that she is younger than I am but whatever. Anyway, she claims that Floyd Mayweather repeatedly held her hostage in his home and wouldn’t allow her to even go outside unless she was escorted by one of his employees. She also claims that Floyd Mayweather has pulled a gun out on her twice and asked her which toe she wanted shot off?

Who would ever think that the guy who has ten girls in one crib waiting to drink his royal piss would be so obsessed and possessive over one chick? This goes back to men with money and power thinking that they can harm women and do whatever to them just because they have money. Many of you may ask, why did she stay if the abuse was sooooo bad? Well the first reason is because she loved him but the second and most important answer is HE GOT MONEY… Yes, women stay in uncomfortable situations to be comfortable.

When you date a man like Floyd Mayweather, you’re not the only one on the payroll… You know mama wants to enjoy the perks and so many others do too. Dating a man with money does not only afford you the luxury of nice things but it affords you a lifestyle that many can’t imagine. I heard Floyd once say in an interview that he fixed Miss Jackson’s mother’s home and asked her why she had her mother in the hood? You think if she left Floyd, he’d still take care of her mama? NO.

I am I’m no way justifying why she stayed with an abusive man such as Mayweather but as I become more well rounded in this love game, I understand people’s actions in their pursuit of happiness. I always use to look at Miss Jackson and wondered why she didn’t start a business or do something with the money that Floyd has but I know that aggressive men like Floyd doesn’t just give you money instead they buy you stuff!

Giving you money means he can’t keep tabs on what you are doing with the money. He seems like the type that must know what you are doing at all times and if he even think you are getting out of line, he’ll be ready to get at you. Miss Jackson should have gotten the hint when he put all her bags on Instagram that time talking about he was giving them away to his followers. Oh man, Floyd must have a lot of yes men around him because if I was his friend I would have tried to stop him from doing something as corny as that. Damn, don’t you hate when dudes do corny ish like the Indian Giver thing? Stories like this just make me glad that I am an independent woman…

Now let’s get to the abortion pics that he placed on Instagram. I was very disgusted when I saw the post. Like dude, I don’t care how much money you have, you don’t have the right to violate someone by placing their medical information online for the world to see. That is just out of control. Floyd was so caught up in his feelings that he didn’t even take time to think about the millions of kids that follow him and look up to him. That was done in really bad taste…

I want to tell Floyd this just in case no one else has told him yet, those kids Miss Jackson aborted was not his. No matter how much of an a-hole he may be, aint no woman in her right mind is going to abort his children. Having twins with Floyd is similar to hitting the lottery. I think Miss Jackson probably wasn’t sure if the kids was his or not and didn’t want to take the gamble so she terminated the pregnancy. No matter what the case was, he shouldn’t have released her medical information. Isn’t that against the HIPPA act? I’m just saying.

Anyway, Floyd was locked up before for Domestic Violence (so he has priors) and Miss Jackson will definitely win the Defamation case regarding the Instagram post. Miss Jackson also has Gloria Allred as her attorney so if Floyd is smart, he will take his loss and settle by paying her a few million. Either way, Miss Jackson is going to get hers. She can’t be bought but that doesn’t mean she’s free. Hmmmm…

P.S. I’m back bishes!!!! So much new things coming your way with my new site/movement Tionna Talks! Leave a comment and tell me how you feel about this Floyd Fiasco!!!

 

Tionna Smalls says, “Don’t Mess With a Man Who’s Not Into You”

When a man aint into you, he aint into you. Phuck it, theres no easier way around it. No need to try to translate it into spanish when the ish is in english and plain as day.

I dont want to be with a man who isnt into me and i dont want none of my girls to be with a man who isnt into them.

How can you tell if a man is into you or not?

He’s not into you when he cant sacrifice for you. When he can go days without speaking to you, he’s not into you. When he can go weeks without seeing you, he’s not into you. When he can go an eternity without tasting you, he’s not into you.

A man who is into you face lights up when you walk in the room. He touches you in intimate spots even by mistake. He listens to your boring stories, laugh at your jokes with all his teeth showing, and just enjoy your company. He’ll make time to see you even if he’s busy and the visit only last 10 minutes because he knows that when you’re into someone, 10 minutes can seem like an eternity because your presence is his bliss. He’s tired, you’re tired, so what he still find the time to talk because he knows he’s your man and his job is to be there and understand. When he’s into you, he listens to you and make fun of that wack ish your boss did with you.

With a man who is into you, you have less than a lover and more of a friend. When you love and is into someone infinitely, time spent becomes more important so I dont want to hear about someone who’s supposedly into you and cant spend no time. Huh, its a cold world but if you listen to your heart and jump into love with your mind… You’re going to be just fine.

I hope this post help some of you ladies that is chasing someone who is not into you. Life is too short for that. I know it hurts because the majority of the time, they start off being all into you and then they switch up but its ok, in life you have to lose to win.

***The best way to see if your boo is not into you is to print your incoming/outgoing call log. Get a blue highlighter for incoming calls from your boo and red one for outgoing. If your paper got it’s period, then you know what it is…

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Tionna Smalls Breaks Down “When a Man Tells You Something In the Beginning Believe Him”

Hey you guys, check out my new video blog. OMG, I went in. Yes, when a man tells you something in the beginning believe him. I get so deep; take notes!!!!!!!

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Dating: Finding Someone New After a Long Term Relationship!

Dear Diary,

Life is funny sometimes. You just never know who is in the background waiting for you and your dude to break up. I truly believe that people who just got out of relationships need time to grow and time to heal from the past relationships but if you are over it and over him, DO YOU!

I’m laughing because we always think a person had to be cheating with the next person if they get into a relationship right away after a break up but I am living proof that that is not true. Recently, I decided to end things with my fiance’, who I was with for 4 years. As soon as word broke out in my small circle about me being a single lady, a guy friend asked can he take me out. I knew dude for ever and wouldn’t normally go out so quick but I said, why not? And accepted his offer. I didn’t know what to call it. OMG! Is this a date? Is this chilling? Whatever it was, I knew I had to be cute.

I was ready!!!! Yes, ready to enjoy myself. I had no baggage left from my past relationship (when it’s over, it’s over) and was sure that the chapter with my ex was FINITO. Yes ladies, be sure that you don’t want the ex before you go on a date with the next.

Anyway, I looked cute; not too sexy and not too classy… Just hot! Needless to say, I had one of the most romantic dates ever. He was a pure gentlemen and I was very impressed. I never believed in a million years that I would be on a date with a man I knew my whole life but walla magic, here we were on a date, chilling, and enjoying each other’s company. It was a great feeling.

Now, I told you that to tell you this. Life is too short to not go on dates because you are too afraid to explore the world and hurt people feelings. When your relationship is over, you have the key to open any new door you would like to open. You just have to be ready to embrace a new world. That is why I started my new DATING GIRL Movement. It’s for the girls who dare to move on with their life and is super-happy about their new or old freedom. Freedom could be from your ex, freedom could be the pass to explore a new world, freedom could be anything you make it as long as you are happy.

I don’t want my ladies rebounding but hey, can’t get mad if another dude catch the steal. When you are a hot commodity, men are going to come and try to get you as soon as they find out you no longer have a owner and I love it. I love a man who is bold and who respected my relationship enough to wait. There are not many men like that out there…the best part of my date was that he didn’t talk about sex or try to get in my drawers. Ugh, I hate when men do that. You don’t ever have to feen for the panties, we know if and when were going to give them up.

Needless to say, me and my Mystery Man (I don’t show guys faces in pics until I know were solid) will go out on another date. I will keep you guys posted about my new dating life. Check out my pics from my date! And I better hear about you going on a date soon too! Muah…my new book, “You Gotta Lose to Win: Breaking Up, No Making Up, and Moving On with Your Life!” will explain it all.

P.S . Always rememer that another man’s trash is another man’s treasure. Muah, love you for free!

Love: Does Looks Still Matter?

Dear Diary,

Yesterday my good actor friend, Jason Lanzar Rivera, visited me at my beautiful Boutique in Brooklyn (Loveys).

Jason is a fabulous actor. He has recently appeared in the movie, King of Paper Chasers. If you haven’t seen the movie yet, go and see it because it is really good.

Anywho, Jason is what we call a handsome man; ok a gorgeous man. He looks way better than he appears on television. I posted a pic of him and I on all of my social networking sites (Facebook, Twitter, and Instagram) and the response from women were crazyyyy. Seeing this response made me ask, does looks still matter to people? I know it did to a specific person I was trying to find a man for but damn, does it matter now?

Would you like a man based on his looks? Does a man looks what determines if you want him or not? As women are we more weak off of a good looking man versus one not so good looking? Or are we more sexually attracted to men who have great looks?

If you ask me, looks doesnt mean anything to me. A pretty man could be an ugly soul. Sure a great looking man is nice to look at and damn sure is some great eye candy but that’s all it is. I go by a man’s personality and thankful for my good friend Jason, he has the talent and personality any girl would die for. Choosing a mate off of looks alone will leave you in a dark and lonely place. Yeah, you will miss out on all the good ones waiting for one who has those “perfect looks.”

I wrote this post to make sure that you check your superficial ways at the door when waiting for your Mr. Right! Don’t choose a man off of looks alone but by his character. Yes, you have to judge a man by his principles, lol.

Have you ever chose a man based off of his looks? Share your story!

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Love: Great Relationships Take Going Through Some Fuckery!

Dear Diary,

When I was younger, I was a girl who dreamed of being married and living happily ever after. I believed that if you you were in a relationship with love that you would never go through problems. Boy as I got older my life and views has certantly changed. I realize now that in order to have a great relationship, you have to go through some ish.

I remember going over wedding songs with Cas and he said that he wanted our wedding song to be New Edition’s “Can You Stand the Rain.” When he said that I wanted to punch him in his throat but then I begin to listen to the lyrics over and over. Listening to the song really opened my eyes to love and relationships in general. Yes, everybody love you when things are great and life is good but what happens when the storm come? Are you going to be in the rain with me, running around with no umbrellas? Most people wont be around when bad ish happen or when a change of life come. Great song choice Cas but it aint happening (laughs).

When choosing a mate, you have to ask yourself can my love for this person stand the test of time? Will I still love and want to be with this person if he was in a car accident and was no longer able to dick me down the same way? What about if he lost his income and wasn’t able to buy you all of those expensive things you like?

These questions are real because in life, real shit happens and your answers are what determines whether your love is real or is it just plain fantasy. A couple who never went through anything drastic dont know what it is to ride or die for their mate. You need a real test to have a testimony of love.

Many single people and those who are in new relationships have ideologies about what they think relationships are but they wouldnt know what a relationship was if you smacked them in the face with one. Relationships are getting thru the rough patches and still making it work. It will not always be dreamy, sometimes bad times will come but it’s up to us to make it through and make it, TOGETHER.

So the next time you and your man is going through it, remember you’re not good until you make bad GREAT. Relationships that go through it, GET THROUGH IT.

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Love: Broken Men & Your Attempt to Save Them…

Dear Diary,

I know I have been gone for a minute but I was writing my first ever screen play. Yes, you read it right; I am writing and directing a movie in Brooklyn. Yep!

Anywho, I am back and today I would like to talk about broken men. Now what is a broken man? Well that’s a good question. A broken man is man who is emotionally unable to love and/or accept love into his life. He is a man who should have received a SSI check when he was younger because he just don’t have it all upstairs. A broken man is a self-sabotager who make sure he messes things up with any woman who shows him love especially if he feels himself falling too.

You can’t blame a man for being broken. Most of the times, you have to blame their sociological factors such as their nature and their nurture. Many broken men become that way from what they had to go through in their environment but MOST of them learn their shitty ways from the people that they were around most which is their mother.

Many women fall in love with broken men hoping that they can save them and show them a little love but they are truly mistaken. You can’t undo 25 years of fuckery!!! Nothing can help this man but prayer. A broken man must know and respect the fact that he is emotionally broken and that he may need help to overcome what has happened in his past.

Have you ever dealt with a man and no matter what you tried to do, he never seemed to show you the same love and respect back. Well, you may have dealt with a broken man. See, these broken men want to love and want to show love but they just don’t know how. No one has shown them how to properly care and feel empathy for someone else; all they know how to do is be messed up and care for themselves. Well at least they think they care for themselves. A broken man is very miserable and insecure and does not have a clue on how they can change their lives; so why are you trying to be Wonder Bitch, thinking you can change his life?????

No matter how much you may love someone, sometimes shit just doesn’t work out. Love is not enough; you have to leave a dude to keep a dude. Staying in a bad situation with a broken man is not going to help the situation, it is going to hurt the situation…Leave him and let him realize on his own that he need to get his shit together.

Life is too short to be playing Psychiatrist to your man, boo, or whatever he is to you. Who has time for all of that? If you want to be in psycho therapy, go get your license and charge $400 an hour. Don’t be one for free! Shit, you try to help him and end up messing your own ass up (I have seen this happen plenty of times). There are many warm poles out here that is looking for a woman like you to love. Leave this dude to the wolves until he get some act right.

I know I sound harsh but hey, life is harsh and I too have dealt with some broken men in my life but I can gladly testify that my life is much better without all of their drama and negativity. I don’t have time for dudes who start arguments and create bullcrap illusions in their heads all because they can’t deal with the fact that they were falling for me or that stuff was going good. <————–That's that self-sabotager thing I discussed earlier.

We'll go more into this one day. Share your broken men stories with me! Also, please comment and share!

Video: We Had the Same Penis…Why Are You So Mad?

I made a video a few months ago about women who get mad at you because you both had sex with the same dude. It’s like what the hell is shorty problem. It’s time for women to grow up and be more cool with another. We obviously have something in common if we had the same penis.

Don’t give the power to the PENIS!

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Love: Does His Grind Match Your Grind?

Dear Diary,

Now a days it is hard being a motivated woman. I guess it’s because most men are indeed intimidated by a strong woman who knows what she wants. When you are a successful chick, It’s better to already have someone already who understands those late nights of script writing (my life), those days when you take a lot of money out of the home to enhance your business (my life), you traveling, meeting new and exciting people. Everything in these type of relationships are cool until you sit down and ask yourself, are you the only motivated one in your relationship.

Being on the grind is not an easy thing; but hey, someone has to do it. I am a certified general when it comes down to grinding so I don’t expect any man who grinds as much as I do. In my past relationships, I have had a huge problem being with dudes because they’re grind was very limited. I am the type of person who goes hard in the paint when I want something in life. I go out and make shit happen; straight up and down. I hate dudes who sit around and dream about what they want to do and I hate people (in general) who’s excuse to why they don’t go after their dreams is because they don’t have the money. I always tell people who don’t have the money to at least come up with a game plan on how to get the money and also a game plan for the dream itself so your ass can be ready when you finally do get the money.

Plan…Plan is a word that wasn’t even in my dictionary until about a few weeks ago (don’t judge me!). Through trial and error, I have learned that if you fail to plan, you plan to fail and a DUDE WITHOUT A PLAN IS A FAIL (a vice versa).

You can’t be the only planner in your relationship. You have to definitely have the same kind of thoughts when it comes down to living your life together as a couple. If you are thinking like a millionaire and he is thinking like a “as long as I make $100 a day,” your relationship will not last through the test of time no matter how good you guys seem to be good for each other on a personal level.

My parents have been married for 28 years and I’d like to think that majority of the reasons why they are still married is because they wanted the same things out of life which was some kids, a good job, a good benefit package, and a home to raise their family in. Fortunately, they accomplished every goal they had and checked it off the list. Now they are just chilling and living happily and that is the formula to good relationships…Yes, in a good relationship you and your mate is on the same page when it comes down to your life and for your future. No one is jealous of anyone and everyone is focused on the plan.

Now what happens when you are on your GRIND and he isn’t?

Good question, from my experience this leads to jealousy and the relationship doesn’t last for the long haul. A person you sleep with every night can be jealous of you and mostly because you out there getting yours versus him going out there and talking about getting his. The guy gets either very sad because he realizes that his grind doesn’t match yours, or he gets real competitive with you and your achievements like he is playing basketball with is boys, or he starts to talk down/insult because he feels less than a man next to you and your achievements.

The first sign of jealousy is the not telling their friends or family members about your achievements. You’ve been promoted and is now making double the money but your man just so happen to forget to tell his mama about your promotion when he goes around telling her everything else. – He’s jealous

If he starts asking too many questions about your recent achievements, can’t come to your graduation (all of a sudden), start bringing up someone else’s accomplishments that seem to be doing better than you, or try to insult you- he is jealous and you my friend don’t need him.

The last but worse thing a jealous dude does is CHEAT. This happens when your accomplishments has turned your 6’5 man into a size of a baby shrimp and he need some loving from a chickenhead who admires the fact that he “at least has a job.” He gets all in her cooch to make himself feel better because he don’t feel like the man standing next to you. He knows that cheating on you will make you feel low (self-esteem wise) if you find out. If you don’t find out, he knows inside of his head what happened, which makes him feel like he has a one up on you.

Woah, its a cold world out here. I go deep into this jealousy in my book, “Girl, Get Your Mind Right!”

Anyway,

If you are single and/or looking for Mr. Right (even though, a woman should wait until Mr. Right finds her); ask yourself, does his grind match my grind before you waste your time giving out the goodies. Remember, he doesn’t have to be a millionaire or a basketball player to be a grinder because I have met plenty of people with money who are not GRINDERS. Don’t waste your time in a relationship with someone you know is not going to EVER match your GRIND…especially with one who don’t understand when it’s time to step their GRIND up. You have to have these honest conversations with your mate before you do something drastic in your relationship like get married or have children.

Man, I swear this love ish is all so complicated, just make the right decisions for yourself!

How important is it to you to have a man who grind hard? Please comment and share with others!

Love: Do You Really Love Yourself or Are You Just Faking Jacks?

Dear Diary,

I received a great response on my post about Jay-Z and Beyonce’s relationship and the song, “Love on Top.” Reading some of the comments and some of the things my supporters said on Twitter really has me thinking. I ended the post basically saying that a man would put your love on top once he sees that you put your own love on top. I said it and I meant it with all of my heart.

There are many beautiful women in the world and for the ones who are not, there are many things that can make her beautiful such as well (such as weave, butt shots, fake tits, whatever) but there aren’t many women who love themselves. I’ll use Kim Kardashian as an example. Kim is a cute girl no matter what you may think of her, she always keep herself together (looks wise). She looks great on the outside but inside but her male trail (yes, credit me if you use this) shows me that she doesn’t love herself.

TIONNAISM:

Male Trail: When you go from penis to penis without giving yourself a break (or a coochie fan). After a while there are so many footsteps, it leaves a trail.

Being able to be by yourself (when necessary) is a huge sign of loving yourself. Now some may think that designer labels and money can buy you self love but, that my dear is not the case. Sure looking good could make you feel good but that my friend is a temporary feeling. Self love is something that many people are not blessed to have and Kim Kardashian can shoot 90 seasons of a reality show and bone every rapper/singer/basketball player until her cooch turns blue and still won’t be able to purchase the love that she is looking for.

TIONNAOLOGY: Seeking the love you are missing within yourself from another person is a deadly sin in this love thing.

I hate hearing women say that they’re man is their better half. I always correct them and say, “no, you are your better half and when you and him (two whole individuals) come together it’s just better.” Finding love within yourself means taking the time out to be with YOURSELF. People are so desperate these days that they settle for anything someone is throwing out to them just because they are afraid to be alone. But like I say in my award winning book, Girl, Get Your Mind Right! , you are alone anyway if you are dealing with some corny loser who doesn’t treat you right, who don’t come home at night, and treat you like dog poo. Sure the body may be there but his mind, heart, and spirit is somewhere at the next chick’s house. Why settle for that?

Sometimes when you want to love yourself, you have to first pray; I don’t know if you believe in God or not but I do and prayer really helped me find myself for myself. The next thing you have to do is take off all of your clothes and look yourself in the mirror. Look into that mirror and tell yourself that you love you no matter how fat the gut is or no matter how much you wish you had a butt like Nicki.

TIONNAOLOGY: Loving yourself is beyond the physical, it is all in the mind; and when you change your frame of mind, you change your LIFE.

Lastly, spend some time with YOU. Take YOU to the movies, take YOU bra shopping, take YOU for some ice cream…Treat yourself good. How would he know how to treat YOU if YOU don’t know how to treat YOU? Self-esteem and confidence is my number 1 defense when it comes down to not falling too hard for anyone (not even my man). My confidence and self-esteem keeps me from being too emotional. It allows me to make better decisions and it definitely shows men that I am not to be played with. One time I was in the barbershop talking to one of the Barbers and I was explaining a situation to him and he stopped me and said, “he knew what kind of lady he was talking to. He knew he couldn’t say that to you.” The Barber saying this made me feel good because it showed me that the energy that I put out to the men around me is the energy I am getting back which is respect, dignity, and pride. Now if I had showed any signs of weakness, I wouldn’t receive the response I do from men who are in my presence.

All in all, never allow the loneliness to take over you and your mind. Be a better person to YOU. Know your strengths, know your weaknesses, but overall know YOURSELF. You should never compromise the love you have for yourself to be with someone else. People who love themselves set standards for their lives, for their existence, and never allow anyone THICK PENIS or not to take advantage of that love. I am the PRESIDENT of the I LOVE ME club. I have it tatted on me and I definitely hold myself in high regard because I understand that a man is not my JESUS and that in the end when it’s all said and done, all I got is GOD and ME.

My I love me tat on my wrist

I hope reading this help some of you ladies because Lord knows we all need some inspiration sometime. Remember, Love is precious, love is kind, and most of all love for self is what makes you SHINE!